You know, I get tired of people expressing their opinions about BDSM.  Ohhhh....Your in a BDSM relationship...what are you a freak????  I guess I am, and I guess being a TS in this relationship make me an even bigger freak!!!!  Well, I pose a question to all....if a male is made to be with a male in a Heterosexual BDSM relationship, does it make him bisexual, or even gay???  And the reverese goes, if a man is made to be with a woman in a gay BDSM relationship, does it make him bi???  What if they enjoyed it, and wanted it more often, not just as a punishment, or a pleasuring for their Dom/me???  In being a TS, I enjoy men, plan and simple, I consider myself a straight women in that manner....yet, I admit, I have a fantasy of being Dommed by a female.  To give myself up to the one person I am trying to be like, in all ways, yet will never attain Her beauty or Reverence...now, is this wrong of me???  Does this make me a bisexual TS...or in most vanilla eyes, a hugely confused freak of nature????  Who knows, and who cares, we are human beings, creatures of habit, sexual beings, confused and ignorant, yet superior to other creatures on this planet.....so, does this superiority define us in how we conduct ourselves sexually???  Does this mean we must label eachother in order to define who we are????  It is said that God made us in His image....does any of us know what God looks like?  Eve was born out of Adam, does this mean Adam was actually a hermaphrodite????  Living with both sexes, and gave birth to the first woman????   Does that mean he had sex with his own sister????  Nobody truely knows....and what gives us the right to judge.  Isnt it true that people are born everyday with both male and female parts???  So, if this is true, then God is both male and female, and is actually tri-sexual....in that manner...a gay, lesbian, and straight, all in one....or has God made a mistake...and if He does, then cant He make mistakes in other ways....so, I guess what I am saying, would people stop judging others on the way they think they should be, and just accept them for who they are....they are children of God, whether gay, lesbian, TS, bi, straight, black, white, red, or green....Dominant or submissive....it just doesnt matter....let us all enjoy eachother and the things that we are....PEOPLE!!!!!